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The True Gifts of Christmas: Rediscovering the Meaning Behind Our Favorite Traditions

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Every December, our family pulls out the boxes of ornaments, the tangled lights, and the cocoa mugs that only appear once a year. It’s joyful and chaotic, a mix of glitter, cookies, and carols, but sometimes, in the rush to make everything magical, I forget why we do it all in the first place.

This year, I wanted to slow things down and help Emilia and Nicholas connect with the meaning behind our Christmas traditions. That’s when I received a new book published by Loyola Press: The True Gifts of Christmas: Unwrapping the Meaning Behind Our Most Cherished Traditions by Megan Alexander.

A Book That Brings Christmas Traditions to Life

In The True Gifts of Christmas, author Megan Alexander takes 25 of our most beloved holiday symbols such as candy canes, stockings, wreaths, Christmas trees, and Santa Claus, and unwraps the stories and symbolism behind each one.

Each chapter explores a single tradition and its deeper purpose, showing how these customs reflect love, generosity, hope, and faith. What I love most is that the book doesn’t feel like a history lesson. It feels like a cozy conversation. You can easily read one story each night with your family leading up to Christmas, making it a gentle and reflective countdown to the big day.

Emilia especially loved learning that the candy cane’s shape and colors have special meanings, while Nicholas was thrilled to “hunt” for candy canes around the house afterward. Every chapter gives you a simple way to bring the message to life, whether it’s crafting, baking, or performing a small act of kindness.

Why This Book Belongs in Every Family’s Holiday Season

The True Gifts of Christmas is a beautiful reset from the holiday rush. Between shopping lists, parties, and school events, it’s easy to feel like the season races by, but this book helps families pause, even for just 10 minutes, to focus on connection over consumption. The writing is warm and accessible, making it easy to adapt for all ages. Emilia can understand the reflections, while Nicholas enjoys the hands-on activities that follow.

How We’re Bringing It to Life

Here’s a glimpse of our upcoming holiday lineup inspired by The True Gifts of Christmas:

🎄 The Christmas Tree – We’ll decorate while talking about how the evergreen reminds us of the everlasting love of God. Emilia will share one “gift” she wants to give that isn’t wrapped, like kindness or patience.

🍬 Candy Canes – We’ll do a candy cane scavenger hunt for Nicholas and end with cocoa while reading the story behind its red and white stripes.

🎁 Stockings and Giving – Each of us will pick a person to surprise with a small act of giving, such as a note, a treat, or a handmade craft.

🌟 Nativity Scene – On Christmas Eve, we’ll reflect on what the true gifts of Christmas have been for our family this year.

🎅 Advent Calendars – I got the kids this Magna-Tiles Advent Calendar for a fun Christmas countdown.

The True Gifts of Christmas isn’t just a great addition to your family bookshelf. It’s a meaningful gift for teachers, grandparents, or friends who love the season but crave something deeper than glitter and wrapping paper.

Closing Thoughts

If you’ve ever wished Christmas could feel just a little slower and a little more intentional, The True Gifts of Christmas is the perfect place to start. It’s not about doing more; it’s about remembering why we celebrate in the first place.

This year, our family is choosing to unwrap not just the presents under the tree, but the true gifts that have been there all along: love, gratitude, and togetherness.

What holiday tradition holds the most meaning in your home?
Tell me in the comments or tag @realmofvibes on Instagram. I’d love to hear your stories and see how your family celebrates the true gifts of Christmas.

Be sure to check out Megan Alexander and Loyola Press on Instagram!

Inside the Grand Reopening of ShopRite Belleville – A LoCurcio Family Market

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October 19, 2025 marked an exciting milestone for Belleville and the surrounding communities: the grand re-opening of ShopRite of Belleville, which is a part of the LoCurcio Markets family. From the first gleaming shelf to the aroma of fresh-baked goods, this isn’t just a supermarket relaunch, it’s a celebration of community, connection, and the kind of everyday experience that turns grocery shopping into something special.

The Legacy Behind the Name

The LoCurcio family has been a name local shoppers trust. Their roots in New Jersey grocery stretch decades, and their stewardship of community markets reflects a personal touch you don’t always see in big box chains. In Nutley, for instance, their ShopRite location (at 437 Franklin Avenue) has become somewhat of a local gem being praised for its fresh produce, vibrant specialty departments, and even live pizza-oven action. You can read my blog on our experience at the LoCurcio Markets ShopRite of Nutley location here.

That same dedication and attention to detail are now featured in Belleville, and it’s worth noting this is not just a takeover of shelves, it’s an infusion of a family-driven ethos into an important local hub.

Our Experience at the Grand Re-Opening

Here’s a preview of what shoppers can look forward to — and what we had the pleasure of experiencing — at the ShopRite of Belleville:

✨ Stunning produce & cheese displays
Expect freshness front and center with seasonal fruits, vegetables, and an expanded specialty cheese selection (featuring both local and international favorites). We sampled the Thumann’s pastrami and ended up buying a whole pound — the kids absolutely loved it! Dietz & Watson also had a great spread of artisan cheeses and premium meats. Jason devoured the buffalo chicken sandwiches and charcuterie cups. I adore when stores offer samples; it’s the best way for my kids to discover new favorite foods.

🍕 Live pizza, made to order
Watching a chef toss dough and bake a pie in minutes is not just fun… it’s a delicious reason to linger (and order more). The kids keep asking, “Mom, when are we going back to the supermarket with the delicious pizza?” We even saw guests ordering pumpkin pizza on our way out!

🎂 The expansive bakery
The kids loved the cake pops and were mesmerized by the beautifully decorated Halloween cakes which were spooky, colorful, and totally creative! Nick got the chocolate cake pop while Emilia chose a strawberry cake pop. I got a bite of each and boy, they were very tasty!

🍪 Seasonal décor & products
We stocked up on festive finds like holiday creamers, cookies, and LoCurcio sprinkles to get in the spirit of the season.

🥗 Prepared foods & ready-to-go meals
Perfect for busy families and professionals, the new store features a robust prepared foods section with salads, empanadas, grilled entrées, sandwiches, a hot bar, and a cold bar. Jason grabbed a sandwich while I opted for a salad to enjoy at home, both delicious!

🌼 A community-first atmosphere
From the floral and plant section to kid-friendly touches like the toy aisle and locally sourced products, the new Belleville ShopRite feels personal and welcoming, more than just a grocery trip, it’s a place to explore.

💰 Competitive pricing + value
The LoCurcio family continues their tradition of pairing specialty appeal with everyday affordability, so shoppers never have to choose between quality and savings.

The Details of LoCurcio Family Markets — Belleville

Address: 726 Washington Avenue, Belleville, NJ 07109
Instagram: @locurciomarkets
Facebook: LoCurcio Markets
Website: Their ShopRite.com profile highlights the LoCurcio family’s four-generation legacy, celebrating their deep roots in the community and commitment to making every shopping experience fresh, local, and family-focused.

Join the Celebration

If you stop by, take your time to explore, grab a slice, and share your finds — maybe it’s a gooey cheese pull, a delicious cake pop, a local product, or your favorite aisle setup… and don’t forget to tag #ShopRiteBellevilleReopening and #LoCurcioMarkets when you post on Instagram and Facebook!

Have you visited any of the LoCurcio Markets locations? (Belleville, Nutley, or Kearny)

Let me know in the comments!

Exploring How a Psychic Reading Can Bring Comfort and Closure After the Loss of Our Beloved Rescue Dog, Bailey

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It’s hard to believe it’s been nearly two years since we said goodbye to our beloved rescue dog, Bailey. She wasn’t just a pet; she was my first dog, my confidant, my protector, and my constant companion. Bailey’s energy was endless; she helped me train for a half-marathon, and she had a way of welcoming every rescue dog we fostered into our home, showing them the ropes of a good life. When our children arrived, Bailey instantly became a loyal friend to them, showering them with kisses and love every single day.

Bailey’s final months were incredibly difficult. She began to limp, and after visiting a specialist, we learned she may have had cancer and could have required an amputation, chemotherapy, or other aggressive treatments that would have only bought her about a year of extra time. Jason and I made the heart-wrenching decision to let her live her remaining days in peace, even as we carried her up and down the stairs and managed her pain with multiple medications. On October 6, 2023, after one last walk around the backyard, we laid her to rest and let her go be with God.

Life without Bailey has been emptier than I could have imagined. Adding to the grief, when I retrieved her ashes, I discovered another dog’s paperwork at the bottom of the cremation box, leaving me with lingering doubts and a heavy heart. We do have a beautiful memorial to Bailey in our home, where we pray, talk, and remember her. Emilia often sits there telling Bailey how much she misses her. But as the second anniversary of Bailey’s passing approached, I realized I hadn’t felt her presence as much lately. I used to hear her walk down the hallway. I used to see her in my mind’s eye. I used to hear her bark at the delivery driver’s. I wanted reassurance. Was she okay? Was she pain-free? Did she forget about us? 

I scheduled a California Psychics phone reading with Cain, extension 7683, and spent 22 minutes speaking with him. From the very beginning, Cain was calm, genuine, and honest. I asked him if Bailey was okay, and he shared that she is with an older couple, potentially great-grandparents, who are animal lovers and caring for her. Bailey communicated that she had pulled back from visiting because she felt my sadness and didn’t want to cause me more pain. Cain reassured me that this was natural and that I would feel her presence around the holidays. We used to celebrate Halloween together with costumes and trick-or-treating, and Christmas with fancy collars and pictures with Santa. He told me that when I feel her visit, to try to remain strong, as she picks up on my energy and doesn’t want to see me upset. 

Cain even described details from our home, telling me Bailey comes to our bedroom on the right side, just like she used to when she would lick my right hand as I lay in bed. He explained her decline was irreversible, related to her brain and stomach, and that even if we had tried more aggressive treatments, it would not have helped. Importantly, he reassured me that I shouldn’t feel guilty about any decisions we made; we gave Bailey a life full of love and care.

One of the most comforting revelations was regarding Bailey’s ashes. Cain told me they truly were hers, which lifted a tremendous weight I’d carried for two years. Talking to Cain allowed me to process my grief, feel comforted, and find closure, especially as her second anniversary approached. His compassionate guidance reminded me that Bailey is at peace, being cared for, and waiting for me.

If you’ve ever lost a beloved pet and have questions about their well-being in the afterlife, or simply need comfort, I highly recommend speaking with Cain at California Psychics, extension 7683. The insight, clarity, and reassurance I received from him have been invaluable, helping me honor Bailey’s memory while finding peace in my grief. 

Bailey may have only been with us for nine years, but her impact on our lives was immeasurable. I will forever cherish the love, joy, and lessons she brought into our home, and thanks to California Psychics Advisor Cain, (ext. 7683), I now carry her memory with a sense of comfort and connection that I never thought possible after such a profound loss.

To further understand the signs and symbols that may indicate your pet’s presence in the afterlife, you might find this insightful blog post helpful as well: Communicating With a Pet In the Afterlife

Have you ever had a psychic reading? Let me know in the comments.

Our Oceanfront Escape in Ocean City, MD: Salty Sands #202 through OCVH.NET

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If you’re looking for a beachfront escape in Ocean City, Maryland that blends comfort, convenience, and coastal charm, let me tell you about our incredible stay at Salty Sands #202 — a beautifully updated oceanfront condo that gave us the beach vacation of our dreams!

Fun fact: Jason and I used to visit OCMD before we had kids, and now we are super excited to share our family-friendly adventures with you. It’s such a full-circle moment to watch Emilia and Nicholas enjoy the same beaches, boardwalks, and attractions we once explored as a couple. There’s something really special about creating new memories in a place that already holds so many of our own.

We booked our stay through OCVH.NET, which is Ocean City Vacation Homes, a local property management company with a wide selection of rentals. Their website made browsing and booking so easy, and the customer service that the property managers provide was responsive and professional throughout the entire process.

One thing we loved about Ocean City Vacation Homes is that every property has its own vibe — from cozy bayside cottages to luxe oceanfront condos. Some rentals even have pools, rooftop decks, and other fun extras that can take your stay to the next level. Whether you’re traveling as a couple, with young kids, or a big group, there’s truly something for everyone.

🏖️ About Salty Sands #202

Located at 2 46th Street, Ocean City, MD 21842, Salty Sands is a mid-rise condo building right on the ocean. Unit #202 is a gorgeous, recently updated oceanfront unit that offered everything we needed and more.

From the moment we walked in, we were greeted with sweeping views of the Atlantic Ocean right from our private balcony. The condo was clean, modern, and felt like a true home away from home. Some of the highlights included:

  • Elevator access – super helpful with kids and beach gear!
  • Designated parking spot – no need to search or stress about parking.
  • Private beach locker – such a convenient perk for storing sandy toys, chairs, and umbrellas.
  • Fully equipped kitchen, updated decor, and a cozy living area where we could relax after long beach days.

We loved being just steps from the sand — morning coffee on the balcony with the sunrise and falling asleep to the sound of waves? Yes, please.

🎢 Family Fun at Jolly Roger Amusement Parks

We kicked things off with Splash Mountain, located at 30th Street, and it was the perfect way to cool down and kick off our Ocean City adventures. With over 17 water slides, a lazy river, and a huge kiddie splash area, there’s truly something for everyone — though we stuck to the more family-friendly attractions.

While we didn’t venture onto the major thrill rides (maybe in a few years!), we watched older kids and teens having a blast on them — there’s no shortage of heart-pounding slides for those seeking adventure.

Emilia and Nicholas especially loved Pirate’s Cove, the giant pirate-themed splash playground with water cannons, fountains, and slides made just for younger kids. They also had a blast in the wave pool, laughing as the waves rolled in and jumping over them together. The green and yellow slides were huge hits too — fast, fun, and just right for their age and comfort level.

We all enjoyed a peaceful float around the Lazy Lagoon, a relaxing river ride that winds through the park and gave us a nice break from the excitement.

We were pleasantly surprised by how clean and well-maintained the bathrooms were — always appreciated when you’re visiting with little ones! There were also plenty of food options throughout the park, from classic boardwalk-style snacks to quick, kid-friendly meals and icy treats to beat the heat.

Splash Mountain was exciting for the kids, easy for parents, and full of smiles all around.

🎠 Rides and Games Galore

We had to visit Jolly Roger at the Pier, right on the boardwalk. This was an absolute highlight of the trip — the atmosphere is classic coastal carnival fun!
Our favorites included:

  • The carousel, which Emilia wanted to ride again and again.
  • The ferris wheel, that Emilia & I loved
  • The teacups, where Emilia & Nick spun themselves silly
  • Carnival games that brought out our competitive side (and yes, we did win a plush prize!).

Since the Pier is right on the boardwalk, we were able to shop, grab snacks, and take a sunset stroll without moving the car. There’s something magical about the sound of the ocean blending with the laughter of kids and the nostalgic jingles of boardwalk games.

On the same night, we also visited Jolly Roger at 30th Street, which is especially perfect for younger kids like Emilia (7) and Nicholas (3.5). This location has a variety of gentle rides and attractions that cater to little ones, making it super manageable and fun for families with small children. From the mini cars and spinning rides to the easygoing pace and shaded seating areas, it was the kind of park where we could let the kids explore and enjoy without feeling overwhelmed. It was a relaxing and joy-filled experience that truly hit the mark for our family.

✨ A Perfect OCMD Stay

Between our stay at Salty Sands #202 and the endless entertainment at Jolly Roger, this Ocean City vacation was everything we hoped for. Whether you’re planning a family trip, a couples’ getaway, or a multi-generational vacation, I can’t recommend booking a rental through Ocean City Vacation Homes enough. It was the perfect launchpad for adventure and relaxation — and we already can’t wait to return.

Make sure you follow Ocean City Vacation Homes on Instagram & Facebook and Jolly Roger Amusement Park on Instagram.

Have you ever stayed in Ocean City, MD? What are your favorite boardwalk spots or beach activities? Drop them in the comments below — I’m always looking for inspiration for our next visit!

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Discover Nutley’s Best Kept Secret: LoCurcio Family Markets (AKA ShopRite of Nutley, NJ) 🍕

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If you’re in Nutley and craving a feel‑good foodie outing, you must stop by LoCurcio Family Markets, also known as ShopRite of Nutley. Located at 437 Franklin Avenue, Nutley, NJ 07110, this family‑run gem has been owned by the LoCurcio family since 1932 and is part of the well‑loved ShopRite chain.

🍕 Pizza That’s a Show and a Taste Sensation

We recently grabbed a fresh, electric oven made pizza for lunch it was simply unforgettable. Watching the chef spin that pie high into the air was mesmerizing, especially for our kids. And the cheese pull? Absolutely insane—the kind that makes everyone go, “Whoa!” My daughter Emilia couldn’t stop exclaiming how “fresh and delicious” it tasted. The best part? It was made in under 5 minutes so no whiny “I’m hungry” exclamations from the kids.

🛍️ A Pre-Made Section Designed for Busy Parents

Dinnertime decision fatigue? Not here. Their prepared‑foods section is a lifesaver for tired, working parents like us. We snagged a delicious dinner for the night of our visit and lunch for the next day—total game‑changer. Jason loved the beef empanadas, while I grabbed the grilled chicken Caprese. The portions are huge, and at great prices. They had fresh a plethora salads, meatless options, sandwiches, wings, ribs, a hot buffet, a cold buffet… I could go on and on. You’d have to see it for yourself.

🎈 Kid-Approved Discoveries

The kids had a blast exploring. They discovered a beautiful glass rose and a quirky frog planter. They also found squeeze‑balls, jack‑in‑a‑bag toys, and bouncy outdoor balls. It turned one quick grocery run into a mini adventure! Be sure to check out the floral area for stunning arrangements, planters, and bouquets!

🍓 Produce & Cheese Selection—Unreal

The fruit and cheese displays were jaw‑droppingly impressive. A perfect blend of fresh local produce and specialty cheeses (hello international cheese department!). We brought home “sprinkle cheese” – (grated Parmesan). We also got a ton of seasonal fruits. These included strawberries, cantaloupe, apples, bananas, and pineapples. Everything was so fresh and delicious. It was an excellent chance for the kids to review fruits and vegetables. We also explained the importance of eating whole foods!

🏪 The Details of LoCurcio Family Markets

🏁 Final Slice: Why You’ll Love It

LoCurcio’s isn’t just another grocery store—it’s a delightful family experience. Come for the hot, fresh pizza (with live spinning action!), stay for the variety, community vibe, and killer prices. Ideal spot for one-stop shopping, family fun, and delicious eats. Both cherubs asked, “When are we going back? That supermarket had everything!”

👉 Ready to Make Nutley’s Best Pizza Night Plan?

Stop in, grab a pie, and stock up at great prices. You and the kids will thank yourselves!


Head to 437 Franklin Ave, follow them on Instagram, like their Facebook page, and check out their ShopRite profile. Then come taste what everyone’s raving about—and let Emilia’s “fresh and delicious” verdict guide your next family pizza night!